Recently i encountered a weird philosophy to help make ur relationship work
"Break up" ya u read it right it was that u shud break up with ur partner after a while so as to make ur relationship work better or make it seem to be working better.
i rubbished this philosophy and thought to my self that if u love som1 or wanna stay with some1 for a longtime you shud learn how to live with the person day in and day out through ur bad moods and good one's too.
if i think i shud dump my girlfriend just because i have a bad mood or a bad phase in life or vice versa, then i suppose i shud be 3 yrs old, but an adult and mature decision is to help ur partner get thru the bad phase in the best possible manner and not leave him or her high and dry.
And mind u if u think ur gonna marry a person and u still have this philosophy u need a reality check, how cud u survive 50-60-70 years of marriage with this kinda philosophy, ppl with these philosophies and low level of mutual understanding and resistence to tantrums and lack of adjustment help add to those files in the family court begging the judges to get them divorce b'cuz they are tired of looking at each other and tear not only a relationship but 2 families apart.
This philosophy from a friend of mine who is 1 yr younger by terms of age but she thinks being in a relationship for 6 years gives her the edge to go and give ppl advice on how to screw a happy and budding relationship. I got this advice after i was on the fone with my girlfriend who was on her way to delhi and i was missing her cuz she was gonna go on a tour of the north for 12 days with her parents and ppl can obviously make the discomfort on my face, so she said
"u both will start hating each other after a while and u shud temporarily break-up after a while to help ur realtionship grow and be peaceful" wat did she expect me to say " as u say commander"(btw i said "i dont give a rat's smelly behind")
It never made me think for a while to take that bullshit decision she had take to and it succeed in eluding her that it does work so she become some big-time realtionship advisor and thinks ur brain-dead enuf to try that, i was not and hope ur not too .
"Being together makes a relationship stronger rather than being apart, do wat ur heart and mind tell you and not wat ur friends"
--------- Bhupinder "i'm no relationship expert" Buttar
Statutory Warning : this philosophy coming even 58,000 miles near ur thought process can be injurious to the health of ur relationship
